{"id":16668,"date":"2018-04-19T10:22:49","date_gmt":"2018-04-19T14:22:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/?p=16668"},"modified":"2018-04-19T10:41:49","modified_gmt":"2018-04-19T14:41:49","slug":"marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/?p=16668","title":{"rendered":"Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Gender and Sexuality: Week 1<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Richard Rohr<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Thursday, April 19, 2018<\/strong><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iA1Lxro67V8\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><br \/>\nWhat is marriage and what is its purpose? As a priest, who has tried to be faithful to my vow of celibacy, I may not be the most qualified to comment, but I feel a responsibility to clarify some of the confusion and misunderstanding that have led to pain, exclusion, and often abuse.<br \/>\nAgain, I\u2019m borrowing from Diarmuid O\u2019Murchu\u2019s insights on gender and sexuality within a historical context. For a full explanation (with rich footnotes), please see his excellent book Incarnation: A New Evolutionary Threshold. From the Aristotelian perspective, \u201chuman sexuality is defined as a biological capacity for the procreation of human life. It is a biological imperative, existing solely for one purpose, namely human reproduction. And it seems to belong primarily to the male . . .\u201d [1] as we saw yesterday.<br \/>\nO\u2019Murchu continues:<br \/>\nThe ensuing sexual morality considered all other forms of sexual expression to be contrary to nature and sinful in the eyes of God. And since procreation was the primary goal, any suggestion of pleasure or human fulfillment from sexual intimacy was considered an aberration.<br \/>\nFrom a Catholic perspective it is worthy of note that marriage was not elevated to the status of a sacrament till the Council of Trent in the 16th century. Going back to the time of the Roman Empire, most Christians were married in the same way as pagans, in common-law or \u201cfree\u201d marriages. Christians were usually married in simple public ceremonies without any license or written agreement. Later on, after the reign of the Christian Emperor, Justinian (527-565), Christians were married in more formal civil ceremonies . . . ; though prayers and blessings were sometimes added to the ceremony, marriage was not a sacrament of the Church and it did not directly involve the Church. . . . Only after the Council of Trent was a ceremony compulsory for Roman Catholics. [2]<br \/>\nDuring and after the Second Vatican Council (1962-1965), the Catholic Church seemed to realize the inadequacy of the Greek view of marriage\u2014solely for procreation\u2014and began to recognize another obvious element to the definition of marriage: intimacy and mutual support. Unfortunately, institutions have a hard time keeping up with such an evolution of thought, even though this is rather obvious. O\u2019Murchu sees this time characterized by \u201cthe paradoxical mix of breakdown and breakthrough\u201d:<br \/>\nSexual abuse flared on several fronts, often involving children, adolescents and vulnerable adults. Sexual deviancy, promiscuity and the extensive spread of pornography were deemed to be the primary culprits. Virtually nobody named\u2014and still fail to do so\u2014the explosion of sexual repression, buried deep in the human psyche over several previous centuries. It is the legacy of that repression that still continues to haunt our contemporaries, and particularly those of a religious background. Responsible incarnational redress will not be forthcoming till that deep psychic woundedness is acknowledged, named, and subjected to a more discerning and compassionate analysis. [3]<br \/>\nConservatives are so afraid of false expression (and they are right), and liberals are so afraid of unhealthy repression (and they are right), that it is going to take us a while to discover our sexual center and balance.<\/p>\n<p>_____________________________________________________<\/p>\n<div class=\"grey-box\">\n<div class=\"quoted_scripture\">\n<p><strong>April 19, 2018 <\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Under Construction<\/strong><br \/>\nJenny Calvert (Texas)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Unless the Lord builds the house, those \u2028who build it labor in vain. <span class=\"reference\"> &#8211; Psalm 127:1 (NRSV)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"body\">\n<p>Our home has been under construction for quite some time now. We have taken down walls and ceilings. But many of the changes have been internal improvements that do not show, such as replacing pipes and electrical wiring. We know that the internal changes, although not seen, make for a better, stronger, and safer home.<br \/>\nThis reminds me of Paul in today\u2019s reading. He writes about being persecuted, afflicted, and struck down, but not destroyed or forsaken, so that the invisible Christ within us \u2014 and the promise in his resurrection \u2014 can become visible to the world. Ever since the day I claimed my faith in Christ, I also have been in a reconstruction period. Little by little, Christ has molded, replaced, and made new my spirit. Because he loves me enough to do this, I am able to hold up under the pressures of this world.<br \/>\nReconstruction is hard, messy work. But the finished product will be well worth it all. If we are willing to let Christ renew us day by day \u2014 painful as it may be at times \u2014 we know that in the end we will become better, stronger, and more effective witnesses. In God\u2019s care we can feel secure that God wants only good for us, not harm, and that we can look forward to a bright future with hope. (See Jer. 29:11.)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"prayer-box\">\n<div class=\"subtle-label\">Today&#8217;s Prayer<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"todays-prayer\"> God of hope, help us not to fight the changes we need to make as we are transformed into Christ\u2019s image. In his name we pray. Amen.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gender and Sexuality: Week 1 Richard Rohr Thursday, April 19, 2018 What is marriage and what is its purpose? As a priest, who has tried to be faithful to my vow of celibacy, I may not be the most qualified to comment, but I feel a responsibility to clarify some of the confusion and misunderstanding [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16668"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16668"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16668\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16674,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16668\/revisions\/16674"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}