{"id":6548,"date":"2012-03-25T06:15:59","date_gmt":"2012-03-25T14:15:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/wordpress\/?p=6548"},"modified":"2012-03-25T06:54:08","modified_gmt":"2012-03-25T14:54:08","slug":"maintaining-the-proper-relationship-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/?p=6548","title":{"rendered":"Maintaining the Proper Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"555\" height=\"385\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KvurddlC8Yc\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>. . . the friend of the bridegroom . . . \u2014John 3:29<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\n<\/strong>Goodness and purity should never be traits that draw attention to themselves, but should simply be magnets that draw people to Jesus Christ. If my holiness is not drawing others to Him, it is not the right kind of holiness; it is only an influence which awakens undue emotions and evil desires in people and diverts them from heading in the right direction. A person who is a beautiful saint <strong>can be a hindrance in leading people to the Lord by presenting only what Christ has done for him, instead of presenting Jesus Christ Himself<\/strong>. Others will be left with this thought\u2014 \u201cWhat a fine person that man is!\u201d That is not being a true \u201cfriend of the bridegroom\u201d\u2014 I am increasing all the time; He is not.<br \/>\nTo maintain this friendship and faithfulness to the Bridegroom, we have to <strong>be more careful to have the moral and vital relationship to Him above everything else, including obedience.<\/strong> Sometimes there is nothing to obey and our only task is to maintain a vital connection with Jesus Christ, seeing that nothing interferes with it. Only occasionally is it a matter of obedience. At those times when a crisis arises, we have to find out what God\u2019s will is. Yet <strong>most of our life is not spent in trying to be consciously obedient, but in maintaining this relationship<\/strong>\u2014 being the \u201cfriend of the bridegroom.\u201d Christian work can actually be a means of diverting a person\u2019s focus away from Jesus Christ. Instead of being friends \u201cof the bridegroom,\u201d we may become amateur providences of God to someone else, working against Him while we use His weapons.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>. . . the friend of the bridegroom . . . \u2014John 3:29 Goodness and purity should never be traits that draw attention to themselves, but should simply be magnets that draw people to Jesus Christ. If my holiness is not drawing others to Him, it is not the right kind of holiness; it is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6548"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6548"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6548\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6550,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6548\/revisions\/6550"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}