{"id":23969,"date":"2024-07-26T10:40:34","date_gmt":"2024-07-26T14:40:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/?p=23969"},"modified":"2024-07-26T10:40:34","modified_gmt":"2024-07-26T14:40:34","slug":"not-for-ourselves-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/?p=23969","title":{"rendered":"Not for Ourselves Alone"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Jeremy Camp - These Days (Lyric Video)\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/0qXn2I449qs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What was given to you freely, you must give away freely. \u2014Matthew 10:8\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>\u2014Step 12 of the Twelve Steps&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Richard emphasizes how inner transformation needs to extend outward to the world:<\/em>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After teaching the gospel for over fifty years, trying to build communities, and attempting to raise up elders and leaders, I\u2019m convinced that one of my major failures was that I didn\u2019t ask more of people from the very beginning. If they didn\u2019t turn outward early, they tended to never do so. <strong>Their dominant concerns became personal self-development, spiritual consumerism, church as \u201cmore attendance\u201d at things, or, to use a common phrase among Christians, \u201cdeepening my relationship with Jesus.\u201d Bill W. semed to recognize this danger early on. Until people\u2019s basic egocentricity is radically exposed and foundationally redirected, much religion becomes occupied with rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic, moving alongside other isolated passengers while the whole ship sinks.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Step 12 found a way to expose and transform that perpetual adolescence by telling us early on that\u00a0<em>we must serve others<\/em>.<\/strong> Supporting others in their healing is not an option, not something we might eventually be \u201ccalled\u201d to after thirty-five religious retreats and fifty years of church services. It isn\u2019t something we do when we finally get our act together. <strong>No; we don\u2019t truly comprehend any spiritual thing until we give it away. Spiritual gifts increase only by \u201cusing\u201d them.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The author of the Letter of James always insists on orthopraxy instead of mere verbal orthodoxy: \u201cTo listen to the word and not obey it is like looking at your own features in a mirror, and then, after a quick look, going off and immediately forgetting what you look like\u201d (1:23\u201324). <strong>For James, to \u201cactively put it into practice is to be happy in all that one does\u201d (1:25) and \u201cif good works do not accompany faith, it is quite dead\u201d (2:17). James is a unique apostle of the Twelve Step behavioral approach.<\/strong> [1]\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>James Finley warns against the temptation to prioritize our own healing at the expense of others:<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a certain temptation [as you go down the spiritual path] to say, \u201cI\u2019m out of here. I know it\u2019s a troubled world, but I\u2019m a mystic in the making. Don\u2019t disturb me. See, I\u2019m out of here.\u201d There\u2019s a temptation to think you\u2019re finding your way into a realm of divinity or inner peace [or healing], removed from the brokenness and sadness of this world, which is really then to betray the path. Thomas Merton once said to me in the cloistered monastery, \u201c<strong>We did not come here to breathe the rarified air beyond the suffering of this world. We came here to carry the suffering of the whole world in our heart. Otherwise, there\u2019s no validity in living in a place like this.\u201d What goes around comes around and it circles back around in the practice with ourselves first. [2]\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>___________________________________________<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>5 For Friday John Chaffee<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1.<br>&#8220;<strong>We mature with the damage, not with the years.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Mateus William<br>\u00a0<br>Earlier this week I had a lunch meetup with an older friend who is a pastor. \u00a0He remarked to me how easy it is for people to stop growing at 28 as if most people hit adulthood and proceed to never grow beyond that. \u00a0<strong>Sometimes we grow because we want to, and sometimes we grow because we have to. \u00a0In either case, the experience of growing is often the result of struggle, discomfort, or as this quote says, &#8220;damage.&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This means our addiction to ease, comfort, and avoiding struggle is our greatest obstacle to growing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2.<br>&#8220;The failure to invest in civil justice is directly related to the increase in criminal disorder.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Friedrich W. 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Schelling, German Philosopher<br>&nbsp;<br>Investing in prison systems and warfare is not the same thing as investing in civil justice. &nbsp;Civil justice, when sought out, recreates structures, environments, and circumstances in which criminal disorder is likely to happen.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This reminds me of what Shane Claiborne often points out: retributive justice is not the same as restorative justice.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Retributive justice seeks to repay wrongdoing with equal pain\/discomfort inflicted upon the perpetrator on behalf of the victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Restorative justice seeks to correct how the perpetrator has become twisted\/malformed and repair or make amends for the victim and what they have lost. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Restorative justice is far more in line with the God of both the Old and New Testament than retributive justice is thought to be. \u00a0The problem is that since we wrongly understand the Gospel as a matter of retributive justice from God, it wrongfully &#8220;excuses and validates&#8221; us (but not really) building a whole society around it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3.<br>&#8220;Narcissism describes when a person cannot tolerate or absorb any form of shame &#8211; even &#8216;healthy shame&#8217; that would enable them to self-reflect and take ownership or accountability.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Kathryn Wilkins, Counselor and Therapist<br>&nbsp;<br>Over the years, I have been growing in my understanding of how shame deeply impacts people and social settings.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Shame is such an uncomfortable emotion for many of us that we dive into the reflexive use of defense mechanisms of denial, rationalization, secrecy, minimizing, comparing, justifying, excusing, scapegoating, and so much more. \u00a0When people fall into those habits, it is usually because they are seeking to avoid the experience of shame.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissism is the personality disorder of someone who is pathologically oriented against feeling any amount of shame or embarrassment. &nbsp;And guess what? &nbsp;Among the top 5 professions that are reported to display narcissism are doctors, lawyers, surgeons, business leaders, and clergy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lord have mercy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4.<br>&#8220;<strong>The spiritual journey is a struggle to be ever more available to God and to let go of the obstacles to the transforming process.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Thomas Keating, Trappist Monk<br>\u00a0<br><strong>Freedom is the name of the game. \u00a0Freedom from every obstacle, addiction, avoidance, aversion, habit, concern, or fear that might block our being changed more and more into a person who is capable of sacrificial love.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>5.<br>&#8220;<strong>Blessed are the weird people: poets, misfits, writers, mystics, painters, troubadours for they teach us to see the world through different eyes.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Jacob Nordby, Writer<br>\u00a0<br><strong>Every time I see the word &#8220;troubadour&#8221; the person of St. Francis of Assisi comes to mind!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>May we all be misfit saints!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What was given to you freely, you must give away freely. \u2014Matthew 10:8\u00a0 Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\u2014Step 12 of the Twelve Steps&nbsp; Richard emphasizes how inner transformation needs to extend outward [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23969"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=23969"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23969\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23970,"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23969\/revisions\/23970"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=23969"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=23969"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/co2mannatoday.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=23969"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}